Girl, you need to guard your heart!
Reserving emotional and sexual involvement in the early stages of dating can help you recognize a man's (or woman's) unacceptable, negative traits.
It’s easy to overlook a man’s harmful behavior when it is camouflaged beneath flowers and gifts, convincing verbiage, expensive silk ties and extravagant spending. You buy into his façade, fall quickly and madly in love with him, and you submit to his sexual desire, only to discover later that he is incapable of contributing to a meaningful relationship.
When a woman can’t find the Right Man, she will often settle for the Wrong Man.
You yearn to be in a loving, caring, stable relationship. You long for someone with whom to share conversation at the end of the day, the holidays, a weekend trip and someone to snuggle with before falling asleep. But as time passes and the Right Man doesn’t show up, you grow weary, you lower your standards and you recklessly allow the Wrong Man into your life.
When you commit sexually to a man, you are no longer emotionally available to meet and date the Right Man.
Stop wasting months, even years with the Wrong Man in the wrong relationship only to find yourself years later, divorced, alone and searching once again for the love of their life.
Girlfriends, WAKE UP! Quit giving bits and pieces of your heart, body and soul to a man who is not worthy of your love, affection and loyalty.
The point is: if you will use your head instead of your “emotional appetite” your will be able to make a sane, logical decision of whether to pursue a romantic connection with a man—or cut bait and run.
Who is the Wrong Man?
- Does he make you jealous?
- Does he make you wonder and worry?
- Does he make you feel irrational, illogical and angry?
- Does he make you doubt your intuition and common sense?
- Does he give you that yucky, sick feeling in the pit of your stomach?
- Does make you reach for the Prozac?
- If so—he’s the Wrong Man for you!
Tatoo this on your head: Fooling around with the Wrong Man will limit your chances to be with the Right Man.
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