Coaching

Dating Coach Overview

What’s wrong with me?

Is this you?

You're disgruntled with the type of men you attract and date. You repeatedly fall in love with men who mistreat you, or men suddenly stop dating you, or men seem to overlook or ignore you entirely. 

Ouch!

As a dating coach for women, my heartfelt advice is: you may need to take candid look at the way you think and feel—not only about men—but yourself.

Many women believe dating is confusing, time-consuming and frustrating. 

I admit: it's tough being a single female in today’s fickle world (especially if you’re over 40). Men ask you for your phone number and they never call. You go out on a date with a great guy, you think he had a wonderful time, you believe he will ask you out for a second date—but he vanishes. A desirable guy pursues you—but you don’t know how to respond to his text messages and when he doesn't call, you agonize whether or not you should call him , you call him and you wish you hadn't. Out of loneliness and even desperation you waste your time dating the wrong man. 

If you’re lucky a romantic connection develops. You should sit back and enjoy the process—instead you worry: should you stop dating others guys (you don’t want to make him jealous) and you agonize when is it okay to have sex with him (you’re afraid if you don’t give in he’ll dump you. Or you throw up an ice block and you push him away).

Guess what! Your fear and doubt trigger your insecurities causing you act out your anxieties and before you know it, you’ve screwed up with the greatest guy you’ve met in a very long time.

Or perhaps you’re the gal who never gets ask out on a date. Ouch! That takes a bite out of your self-esteem.

If only there were a magical mirror in which you could see yourself as others see you.

That’s where I come in … I will help you understand the attitudes and behavior that sabotage your dating efforts.


Online dating brings new complicated dating rules:

Many women (and men) are afraid try online dating ... they say they've tried it was too time-consuming, unproductive and disappointing.

I understand! Finding a wonderful boyfriend or husband requires time, effort and energy.  

I highly recommend online dating as a vehicle for single men and women to meet, date and find love.

Statistics boast that 1 in 5 singles are currently in a committed relationship with someone they met on a dating site. I call it fast-forward dating. Instead of having 5 dates in a year, you are introduced to numerous candidates within a matter of months. Meaningful conversations develop through email correspondence, chats and phone calls. When you meet in person you may already feel you have a romantic connection.

However—a poorly written profile can kill your chances of attracting a great guy. Unflattering photos will dilute a man's interest. The wrong men contact you. The right men ignore you. A desirable man expresses an interest in you with a series of emails and chats—and then—poof!—he disappears.

Yes! It's complicated and it's disappointing.

I will help you write a profile that will intrigue the men you want to meet and inspire them to contact you.

Which brings us to: How do you respond to an online suitor?

Online correspondence is a tricky sticky proposition. If you’re too friendly you can appear too eager, needy or desperate. If you’re overly confident a man may judge you as cocky or unattainable. If you come off as uber-independent a man may be afraid you are emotionally frigid. One wrong comment can turn off a potential suitor.

I will teach you how respond to man’s communication in a way that will inspire him to ask you for a date.

Photos can invite a man to seek more information about youor douse his interest.

If you post an poorly composed profile and unflattering photos in the beginning, you will lose your opportunity to attract the men who view your profile. Once a man makes a snap decision about you (based on your profile and photos) you won’t get a second chance to entice his interest and before you know it, you has exhausted your online dating pool.

I will help you choose photos that will inspire a quality man to want to know more about you.  

Let’s talk a minute about being a savvy single woman!

Internet dating has spawned a playground for cheaters, players and con-artists. Things are not always what they appear to be on internet dating sites. A person’s photo may not be their own. Men conceal their marriages, criminal records and more. It is important that you recognize the warning signs of scammers, married men, abusive men and sociopaths.

I will teach you the early warning signs of online romance artists who create a false online front.


Like it or not—dating is a game which requires a fundamental understanding of men, behavioral do’s and don’ts—and MOST of all—a positive attitude.

Ask yourself:

  • Do you repeatedly date and fall in love with the wrong man?
  • Do the men you like not ask you out for a second date?
  • Do men suddenly stop calling you?
  • Do men seem to be un-attracted to you?
  • Do you fall in love quickly and easily and have you heart broken.

If you answered “yes” to these questions, my guess is you are confused and disappointed with dating.

I can help …

If you don’t get second dates—there’s probably a good reason. I will help you understand how you come off to the opposite sex.

If you repeatedly date men who are less than what you want and deserve—I will help you raise the standards in the men you date and commit to and help you to recognize a wonderful man who will commit, adore and love you for a lifetime.  

If you lack confidence with men—I will teach you how to “flirt” with poise and purpose.

I will help you project a confident, alluring presence that no man can resist.

Ask yourself these questions:

  • Are you influenced by a man’s good looks, flattering words, charisma and success?
  • Do you secretly question a man’s hurtful behavior, but keep dating him anyway?
  • Do you have a history of dating and falling in love with the wrong man?
  • You have a track record of failed relationships or divorce.

My specialty is helping women who consistently date and commit to men who are emotionally unavailable, men who are players and cheaters, and men who are verbal and physically abusive.

I can help you understand the underlying reasons you gravitate to men who neglect and maltreat you. I will help you break your old behavioral patterns.

And finally …

The older woman often believes she is undesirable and unable to attract a quality man. Listen up! It’s what you do with what you got (a positive attitude and a polished outer appearance) that attracts a great guy.

As a prior image consultant I helped women create an attractive head-to-toe appearance. I can help you improve your overall presence!

Let’s get started!


Life Coach Packages

  • Are you confused about the behavior of a new boyfriend (girlfriend)? 
  • Are struggling with dating/relationship problems?
  • Are you dealing with the emotional pain of a recent breakup or divorce? 

You don't have to do it alone; I can help you process and cope with the reality of your situation.   

Phone consultation: 30 minutes $50.00 - CLICK HERE TO PURCHASE
Phone consultation: 1 hour $75.00 - CLICK HERE TO PURCHASE
Email consultation (a lengthy response to your questions with one follow-up exchange): $50.00 - CLICK HERE TO PURCHASE
Quick email question: $25.00 - CLICK HERE TO PURCHASE

 



Online Dating Coach Packages

I will coach you on today’s dating rules. I will teach you how to project an aura that will attract a quality man. I will teach you how to spot a “cheater, a “player” and a con-artist and how to handle a wishy-washy suitor. I will open your eyes to your attitudes and behavior that kill a man’s interest. Most importantly, I will teach you how to recognize and appreciate a wonderful man who will love, respect and commit to you—forever!

Basic Package: $195.00 - CLICK HERE TO PURCHASE

You have an online dating profile, but aren’t meeting the right man. I will rewrite you current profile and choose your photos to help attract your ideal match. The basic online dating packet includes:

  • A 30-minute telephone consultation
  • Selection of all profile photos and an upload order
  • Copy editing & re-writing of your profile 
  • First date email advice for three weeks
  • Other dating site suggestions

Intermediate Package: $295.00 - CLICK HERE TO PURCHASE

The 30-day essentials for your online dating life. I will teach you how to best approach online dating. It includes:

  • A 30-minute telephone consultation
  • A completely new Profile From Scratch
  • Selection of all profile photos and an upload order
  • 3 handcrafted, initial emails to matches you like each week 
  • Individual dating advice (up to 6 emails answering your questions)
  • One round of profile tweaks

Advanced Package: $595.00 - CLICK HERE TO PURCHASE

I will write your complete profile from scratch, select your best photos, and even advise you on which site to join. This package includes:

  • A 30-minute telephone consultation
  • Complete profile writing
  • Username creation
  • Selection of all your profile photos and an upload order
  • Dating site suggestions
  • First-timer online dating advice
  • One round of profile tweaks

Premium Package $1195.00 - CLICK HERE TO PURCHASE

Everything you need to put your best foot forward. In addition to everything that is in the Advance Coaching Package the Premium Coaching Package includes a head-to-toe makeover consultation which includes wardrobe, hair, color analysis and personal grooming advice that will get you ready for your photos and help you make your best impression in front of a potential suitor. Plus I will write your complete profile from scratch, elect your best photos, and even advise you on which site to join. This package includes:

  • Wardrobe advice based on your body type, personality and lifestyle
  • Hair and makeup advice
  • Photo consultation
  • 2-hours telephone consultation
  • One round of profile tweaks
  • Complete profile writing
  • Username creation
  • Selection of all your profile photos and an upload order
  • Dating site suggestions
  • Two months real-time email, text and phone advice